Jade May

About Jade May

I am Mistress Jade May, a Dutch High Class Dominatrix and nominee for Fetish Creator of the Year 2026. My style is refined, sensual, playful and intelligent, combining natural authority with genuine connection.

Perhaps you spend much of your life taking responsibility, making decisions or meeting expectations. Here, you can allow yourself to be guided. Whether you arrive with a clear desire or a curiosity you have not yet found the words for, there is room to explore at a pace that respects your boundaries, under my attentive lead.

My background includes kink workshop facilitation, tantra, psychology, hypnosis, body awareness and influences from shamanism. I have explored kink since the age of sixteen and have worked professionally within the field for the past five years. These influences shape my attention to atmosphere, detail and, most importantly, the person in front of me.

For me, High Class means elegance, discretion and exceptional personal attention. From our first conversation through to aftercare, I create a considered and personalised experience in which your boundaries are respected and your curiosity has room to unfold.

I enjoy elegance with a soft, sometimes cruel edge. Structure with warmth. Humour with teeth. I can be caring and reassuring, but also delightfully mean. I love contrast, anticipation and those unexpected moments when a smile or perfectly timed remark affects you more deeply than force ever could.

My sessions may include sensual domination, mental control, submissive training, foot, heel and boot worship, sensory and somatic play, impact play, bondage, restraints, nipple play, clothed facesitting, anal training and other mutually agreed BDSM and fetish experiences.

Whether you are taking your first steps into BDSM, deepening an existing desire or exploring together as a couple, the experience is shaped around our shared interests, your experience level and clearly agreed boundaries.

My sessions are dedicated exclusively to domination and BDSM. I do not offer sex or sexual intercourse, and I remain clothed throughout. Physical contact is never assumed or guaranteed and takes place only within our agreed boundaries and at my invitation.

Respect is the foundation of every session. Please arrive sober, clear-headed and free from perfume or strong fragrances. My limits include sex, nudity on my part, blood, scat, extreme pain, extreme humiliation, sounding and illegal activities. Touching is only permitted at my invitation.

First visits start with a 1.5-hour introductory session at a package rate of €1,100. Additional time is €650 per hour. Subsequent visits are €650 per hour with a minimum booking of 1.5 hours (€975). The first visit includes a pre-session introductory call, and sessions include aftercare, studio rent, snacks and beverages.

You may feel honoured in my presence.
You may feel slightly concerned.
Ideally, both.